- Lubricant: appropriate lubrication (to reduce friction during intercourse) reduces the risk of cuts and injuries during sex, especially anal sex.
If a gay man leans on the more feminine side, he may feel that he needs to take on the more “womanly” role of receiving, instead of being the giver, reinforcing misogynistic stereotypes that go way back. Truth: being verse involves flexibility and enjoyment of both roles, which emphasizes the diversity of human desires and capabilities, not confusion;
- Myth: versatile people are less likely to be satisfied with monogamous relationships.
For this, keep a few things in mind:
- Communication and consent: open and honest communication about sexual health, STI testing, and consent are essential to any healthy sexual relationship.
- You can not trust such boys people : scientific research proves that there is no connection between pedophilia and homosexuality.
Many individuals may express different preferences at different times, or may not identify with either top or bottom positions. Hence, terms like “top”, “bottom”, and “versatile” (or “vers”) were born, becoming an all-too-important cultural norm in the gay world. Among homosexual individuals, dominants are often distinguished, that is, active, and slaves are passive.
Contrary to numerous opinions, non-traditional orientation is not a disease. Relationships are complicated and multifaceted. For some, it means adapting to a more dominant role in intercourse and “driving” the experience, sometimes within a larger, relational context. However, the question arises whether it is possible to cure a gay man who became such as a result of trauma, suffered violence or deviations in the psyche.
It’s crucial to recognize and respect the diversity of sexual experiences and orientations. Bottom is a confident and outgoing character who is eager to please and always ready to take on a challenge.
- All gays are crazy about fashion : we are all people, somebody loves fashion and understands it, somebody does it anyway. They allow their partner to be in control while still enjoying the pleasures of being on top.
In sexual life, preferences often change, and social roles are rarely divided into male and female, so the question of passivity and activity is very controversial. In the context of sexual intercourse, it refers to a person who does not want to engage in anal sex at all. Penetrative sex is a perfectly legitimate form of sexual self-expression;
- Myth: if you’re a side, you just haven’t found the “right” person to enjoy penetrative sex with.
What do the gays look like? For others, it can be a more liberating and empowering role in which they are in control of their own pleasure and how they engage in the sexual act. A person with the role of verse can be both the giver and receiver of penetration in sex.
Accepting Diversity
Being verse means accepting a variety of sexual roles.
Understanding the power dynamics involved in sexual relationships is essential for safe and consensual sex.