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This can lead to feelings of invisibility and the need to constantly prove their right to love and be loved, and to express their gender identity or sexual orientation freely.
Moreover, disability and LGBTQ identities are often shaped by different forms of oppression. She coached Team USA to gold at the Rio Paralympics in 2016.
By embracing their LGBTQ+ Disabled identity, people describe feeling free – or at least, freer – from rigid expectations or social norms. Further, deaf gay men are happier in their relationships and have more positive self-images than hearing gay men. it’s our words and our experiences. Stevie also advocates for people who use mobility devices, are chronically ill, immunocompromised, or neurodivergent.
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Celebrating LGBTQIA+ disabled leaders
The incredible people listed above are leaders in advocacy for disabled LGBTQIA+ individuals.
And I hope people see that. There is so much gray, and it requires discernment when you deal with people.
According to Recio, the three colors also represent the different forms of disability. It will inspire people to try for the national team, or that they can be a woman and disabled and queer. Just as I identify as curious, stubborn, determined – it is impossible to separate the quantity of how these characteristics show up in my work.
LGBTQ pride events, social gatherings, and support groups may not always accommodate the physical or sensory needs of people with disabilities, leading to exclusion or isolation. Often, LGBTQ+ Disabled people do not feel included within the wider LGBTQ+ community, due in part to a lack of accessible Queer spaces.
This Pride Month, we want to amplify some of the brilliant LGBTQ+ Disabled artists and activists who are using their platforms to create a conversation about what it means to be LGBTQ+ and Disabled.
We have had insightful conversations with artist Chella Man, writer, actor, and director Ryan O’Connell as well as comedian Rosie Jones, and we continue to learn from many other LGBTQ+ Disabled activists as well.
You won’t regret it!
Out Gay Rowing Champion Lauren Rowles Celebrates New World Best Time at Paralympics
Matthew and Paul
Black, Gay, Autistic and Beautiful
Films and Shows With Messy, Amazing, Real LGBTQ Disabled Characters
Dark Disabled Stories: Hard Truths About Queer People With Disabilities
Deaf Queer Resource Center
Being Blind and Gay
Alex Mitchell on BGT: Gay and Autistic
Meet the Same-Sex Parents Advocating for LGBTQ and Disability Rights
Queer and Trans Creators with Disabilities Fighting for an Accessible World
Jessica: Disabled and Gay
Embracing My Queer Disabled Identity
MAP Report: LGBTQ People With Disabilities
Author Lucy Webster: Similarities Between Experiences of Being Queer and Being Disabled
Try Smiling
Books
Notes From a Queer Cripple by Andrew Gurza
Eyes of Desire: Deaf Gay and Lesbian Reader by Raymond Luczak
Do You Dream in Color by Laurie Rubin
Mean Little Deaf Queer by Terry Galloway
Queer Crips: Disabled Gay Men and Their Stories by B.
Guter and JR Killacky
My Life as a Deaf Gay Man by Peter Beach Morier
Captive Genders: Trans Embodiment and the Prison Industrial Complex by Eric A. Stanley and Nat Smith
Crip Theory: Cultural Signs of Queerness and Disability by Robert McRuer
Feminist, Queer, Crip by Alison Kafer
Normal Life: Administrative Violence, Critical Trans Politics and The Limits of Law by Dean Spade
Black on Both Sides: A Racial History of Trans Identity by C.
Riley Snorton
Films/Shows
T11 - Written and directed by Suzanne Guacci
Special - Written by Ryan O'Connel, Executive Producer Jim Parsons
Margarita with a Straw - By Shonali Bose
Euphoria - Starring Zendaya
Concerto for Abigail - Starring Andrea Bogart, Monica Young
LGBTQ and Disabled Communities: Social Struggles We Share
LGBTQ Disability Activists Who are Changing the World One Fight at a Time
Gay Autistic Comedian
Disabled LGBTQ Characters From TV Shows We Love
Queer and Disabled: Misconceptions
Alex Mitchell on BGT: Gay and Autistic
Autistic LGBTQ Public Figures Providing Essential Representation
Italian Sprinter Valentina Petrillo: First Out Transgender Paralympian
Meet the Triathlete Who Just Happens to be Transgender and Deaf
Deaf YouTuber and Her Wife Go Viral Sharing Their Remarkable Family Journey
Dickie Hearts: Paving the Way for a Rainbow of Deaf Stories
Terminology of the Disabled Community
Respectful Language
PWD - Person With a Disability - The correct term is a matter of preference, but "person with a disability" (people-first language) is widely accepted and recommended.
We experience the full range of emotions of humanity. She described how most of the time, “[LGBTQ+ Disabled people] won’t be seen, we won’t be heard, our stories won’t be heard, and we won’t be in community with people…” Her message was emphatic: “We are here and we contribute.”
Finding pride in LGBTQ+ Disabled identity
So how does the LGBTQ+ Disabled community find pride, when Queer spaces are still so often inaccessible?
Accepting, kind, funny. I love who I am!’, the audience can see that I am more than a disability, or a sexuality. She is a prominent speaker on disability and LGBTQIA+ advocacy in filmmaking, having been featured at Disney’s The Power of Inclusion Summit, TED, NASA Women in Action, and many others.
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Olu Niyi-Awosusi (they/them)
Olu Niyi-Awosusi describes themselves as an ethical technologist and accessibility advocate and identifies as “mad/disabled.” They advocate for an online world that is relevant, useful, and inclusive of people with disabilities, access and functional needs, and/or those with limited access to technology.
Examples: "A student with dyslexia" or "a person who uses a wheelchair" or "a student with a learning difference"
Identity-first language (IFL)
Use: "Disabled person," "disabled people"
Why: Some people prefer this because they view disability as an integral part of their identity and a shared cultural experience.
We have a long history of greatness with USA Wheelchair Basketball. In the decade since that dinner party, fortunately, there has been advances in awareness of the challenges facing deaf people, in large part due to efforts to comply with the Americans with Disabilities Act in the United States and similar laws elsewhere.
We think of Aaron Rose Phillip, an Antiguan-American model who in 2018 became the first Black, Transgender and Disabled person to be signed by a major modeling agency. It’s just two souls who cling to each other in their mutual suffering.